Instead of immediately going after the ultimate goal of sex, a romantic relationship, or love start with, what I call, buddy dating. In other words, focus on becoming friends, and then see what happens. This strategy takes the pressure off and allows for a more natural development of a friendship – if that is to […]
Perfect Partner
Find Happiness First, Then Find Love
Do you keep finding yourself in unhealthy relationships where one or both of you are constantly making unreasonable and selfish demands on the other person? What do you think causes this? Are you trying to fill holes or soothe wounds in yourself? Are your partners doing this? Or are both of you doing this? What […]
Your Next Great Love
Who will be your next great love? What will they look like? What will your relationship be like? What activities will you do together? It’s exciting to imagine a new love. This is especially true if you have completely gotten over a recent breakup and are ready for a new relationship. Regardless of your situation, […]
Social & Sexual Ethnic Mixing
Some societies, religions, and individuals strongly object to social and sexual ethnic mixing. Some countries where war has brought soldiers from foreign lands severely reject the children who were produced because of these occupations. But is social and sexual ethnic mixing a bad thing or a good thing? Is it a natural or unnatural behavior? […]
Are You Picking or Being Picked
Are you picking your romantic partners or are they picking you? This is important if you continually find yourself with partners who are a bad match for you or fall short of fulfilling your needs. Picking can happen at various points. These include… When you first notice them. When you first talk with them. During […]
Your Best Assets for Being Loved
Your best assets for being loved are your uniquenesses! Unless you have an identical twin, you have no competitors. Any imitators can only fake a cheap representation of you at best. Think about what attracts you to a particular person. Isn’t it their unique look and the way they move and behave that draws you […]