The consequences of picking the wrong person to love are tremendous, numerous, and sometimes soul-crushing. Picking the right person can be an enormous life enhancement.
What do the consequences of picking the wrong person to love look like? You’re probably familiar with many of them. Let’s take a look at the full spectrum of possible outcomes.
- Endless discord
- Endless arguments
- Health damaging strife
- Less productivity in career
- Less productivity at home
- Less meaningful recreation
- Lost time with children
- Assets divided
- Children have step-parent
There is one other part of this equation that must be examined by answering this question. Are you the wrong person in relationships? If so, in what way or ways? Are you repeating negative patterns in your romantic relationships? And perhaps in your non-romantic relationships as well?
If you suspect that you may be part of the problem in your relationships, taking an honest look at each one can be a tough but immensely worthwhile. In addition, perhaps a self-evaluation (article) could lead to relationship success.
If you truly feel you are not the problem in your relationships, take a hard look at your partner selection (articles) and character discovery skills (article).