Call them underwear, panties, knickers, or whatever you want. They are exciting to most men… if they are the right ones and on the right woman. Grandma underwear will never do.
The incredible and extensive array of women’s underwear is amazing. The designers have created a plethora of stunning designs. Why a woman would not take advantage of this has always puzzled me.
Here’s the truth. Men see women’s underwear as the embodiment of femininity. The gateway to paradise. And the final hurdle. I haven’t done a survey, but I’ve heard the comments since before I even cared.
Some women go to great lengths to conceal them. So they buy special (ugly) underwear or other items to hide panty lines. I understand there are outfits and times when it’s necessary or preferred. Here’s the truth. Men love looking at panty lines on the right woman with the type of body they like. Seeing hints of women’s underwear underneath their clothing is like a preview. And this arouses men. Don’t expect this reaction if your man is unhappy with your body weight. In addition, wearing clothes that make underwear too visible sends the wrong message. A mixture of subtleness and classiness is best.
Before you go shopping, find out what type of lingerie your man likes. And be sure he likes the sexy stuff, as you don’t want to create an unintended impression or interpretation. What’s most important is that you select underwear and lingerie that you feel attractive, sexy, and confident in wearing.
Since we’re in the neighborhood, I’ve got a few comments about the fur triangle. Fur (PH) is an innate visual cue for men that excites and prepares them for sex. Trimming the muff is good. Shaving it is misguided and a bad move in my view — pun intended. (I question why a man would prefer the child-like look of a shaved V-zone unless it’s not strictly about the appearance but rather something else.) Then, of course, there is women’s underwear that partially or fully reveals the muff, which is very sexy from my perspective.
In the spirit of equality, here’s a word about men’s underwear. Let’s face it, men’s cheap tighty-whities (briefs) look therapeutic. They are grandpa underwear. I’m not suggesting that men go to thong or sling underwear. Those are too extreme. Just a clean, classy, supportive design would be a great improvement.
Some of the most exciting sexual experiences I’ve had were with women who occasionally wore super sexy lingerie. From a man’s point of view, sexy lingerie greatly enhances a woman’s femininity, attractiveness, and sexiness (hotness!). But it does take self-confidence to pull it off. She must own it. Self-confidence is required not only to be comfortable with wearing it but also because self-assurance in this situation acts as an aphrodisiac for men.
There is one other component to this: Perfume. An intoxicating perfume that your man, and you, really likes adds fuel to the fire. Here are some of my, and celebrity, favorite fragrances.
Sexy underwear and lingerie are not required all the time. Simple cotton underwear, jeans, and a t-shirt can do it too, for example. But if you add sexy underwear and lingerie to the mix occasionally those images will never leave his mind. 😀 So change it up and enjoy the attention and lovemaking. Tip: Buying expensive underwear and lingerie is not necessary. Most men will be too excited to notice any designer labels. So buying conservatively is fine. I was surprised to find some incredible prices and selection on top-rated women’s lingerie here.
Gentlemen: I hope this helps if you know what I mean. 😛