What is keeping you from starting a new romantic relationship? Is it a past painful breakup (articles) or betrayal? Or is it your own insecurities and lack of self-confidence? Or both? There is one thing I have repeatedly experienced and can guarantee to you: Your next relationship will be better than all of those that […]
Before Dating
Be It To Get It
Do you have a detailed description of the person you want to have as a life partner, lover, or friend? Do you have specific criteria on their appearance, character, and other attributes? Do you have high standards? Or will you settle for whoever comes along? Do “you” have the appearance, character, and attributes you want […]
Consequences of Picking the Wrong Person to Love
The consequences of picking the wrong person to love are tremendous, numerous, and sometimes soul-crushing. Picking the right person can be an enormous life enhancement. What do the consequences of picking the wrong person to love look like? You’re probably familiar with many of them. Let’s take a look at the full spectrum of possible […]
Why Are You Still Alone?
The reasons why you are still alone may surprise, enlighten, and inspire you. Consider these. You have unresolved issues about past bad relationships. Have you moved on from the pain of past breakups? Are you ready to take what you’ve learned and open yourself up to a new, better relationship? Why deprive yourself. Everyone has […]
Your Most Important Relationship
Many people think that their most important relationship is the one they have with their girl/boy friend or spouse. If they don’t have one, they are constantly anticipating and working toward that end. They consider this romantic relationship to be central to their fulfillment and happiness. This way of thinking places an unfair amount of responsibility for a person’s […]
Things that Make a Person Attractive
The things that make a person attractive and charismatic have little to do with how good looking they are. Surely you’ve met people whose good looks are overshadowed by their “negative” self-appraisal, attitude, and behavior. Or their “egotistical” self-appraisal, attitude, and behavior. You have also likely met people whose “positive” self-appraisal, attitude, and behavior overshadowed […]