As an adult, the best time to strengthen or develop self-love is when you are unattached and alone. This is because when you are in this situation you have few distractions, more alone time, and most importantly, no lover to prop up your self-love. Many times when a romantic relationship ends, we may feel little or […]
Before Dating
Afraid to Love Again?
Are you afraid to love again? If you’ve been deeply hurt it’s understandable. But it’s always possible with the high reward endeavor of loving someone. There are ways to avoid and limit the pain if things don’t work out, however. Loving requires courage, so the rewards are plentiful. Not loving requires nothing, so the rewards […]
You Can’t Force Love
That tragic story out of Santa Barbara, California about Elliot Rodger murdering people because he couldn’t get a girlfriend reminds me of the fact that you can’t force love. I know that it’s an extreme example and that he had other medical and psychological issues. However, this case is unique because of the video he […]
Guru Dating and Mating
Guru dating and mating is about doing both of these things with intelligence, integrity, and intention. Here’s what I mean. Intelligence – Being smart about your approach to dating and mating. This means taking the time to think things through and using the best strategies and wisdom to ensure success. Integrity – Being honest, sincere, […]
Become the Person You Want First!
Most of us have a good idea of the type of person we want to be in a long-term relationship or marriage with. We especially know what we do not want. We evaluate potential partners based on these criteria when we meet or go out with them. However, not as much attention is placed on […]
Date Duds
Date duds are dates that are a failure due to a variety of reasons. If you have dated a number of people, you have certainly had a few date duds. There are many causes for date duds. Understanding these can increase your rate of success and fun on your dates. Here are some of the […]