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Why Are You Still Alone?

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By Brad Paul

The reasons why you are still alone may surprise, enlighten, and inspire you. Consider these.

  • You have unresolved issues about past bad relationships.
    • Have you moved on from the pain of past breakups? Are you ready to take what you’ve learned and open yourself up to a new, better relationship? Why deprive yourself.
    • Everyone has past hurts. Go find a partner and share your joy, not your pain.
  • You have painful memories of your parent’s horrible marriage.
    • The painful events burnt on the virgin memory of a child’s mind can be difficult to let go of. I know. My mother and stepfather fought nearly every day.
    • From a positive perspective, you know exactly what not to do in a relationship. Beyond that, it’s just a matter of letting it go.
  • You have a negative attitude about whether you can find a partner.
    • You must be positive and open to be successful. The thoughts you hold in your mind, positive or negative, is what you’ll get.
    • You must be optimistic, resolute, open, and receptive to meeting a compatible partner. Otherwise, you may miss a golden opportunity when you cross paths with them.
  • You are unprepared for dating, romance, and relationship building.
    • Are you ready? Is your life in order? Will you be an enhancement or burden in a relationship?
    • These articles can get you on course.
  • You do not know how to go about finding a compatible partner.
    • Most people put very little effort into this incredibly important endeavor.
    • These articles can guide and motivate you.
  • You are not sufficiently involved socially, if at all.
    • Join groups and organizations that represent your greatest passions. This is the best way to find a highly compatible partner.
    • The matching criteria (algorithms) of dating websites fall short in this area.
  • You have lost your courage and confidence.
    • The only way to get courage and confidence is to go toward and through what you are afraid of and lack confidence in. Your fear and lack of confidence may be in your ability to talk to a person you’re attracted to.
    • Once you go forward regardless of how scared and awkward you feel, afterward you get a tiny bit of courage and confidence. Do it 10 times and you get it all. 🙂
  • You have bought into your community’s or religion’s standard that a person must have a partner to be normal and happy.
    • Those “rules” were set up to control people. The truth is you have the right to be happy and fulfilled regardless of your relationship status. Don’t let anything or anyone tell you otherwise.
    • By accepting this truth and allowing yourself to be happy, you’ll be infinitely more attractive.
  • You enjoy being unattached and alone but have not come to terms with either.
    • Acknowledgment and acceptance are the keys. Acknowledge that it is perfectly okay to be unattached. Accept that you may simply prefer unattachment.
    • So you acknowledge and accept that you will live joyfully unattached while being open to the possibility that someone may enter your life who feels similarly.
    • These articles may help you: Single, Unattached, & Happy & Loner Self Confidence.

That problem is not about being alone. The problem is about how you look at and feel about being alone and what actions you are taking to create the life you want. It’s really that simple.

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