Constantly trying to appease a lover’s insecurity (girlfriend, boyfriend, husband, or wife) only strengthens it. As it gets worse, more and more appeasing is required to quiet it. Finally, the person who is doing the appeasing will only grow more and more frustrated. Examples of a Lover’s Insecurity An insecure partner demands that their lover… […]
Self Improvement
Best Time to Develop Self-Love
As an adult, the best time to strengthen or develop self-love is when you are unattached and alone. This is because when you are in this situation you have few distractions, more alone time, and most importantly, no lover to prop up your self-love. Many times when a romantic relationship ends, we may feel little or […]
Personal Operating Manual
Your ability to communicate your values, principles, and boundaries are crucial to the success of any relationship, especially a romantic one. Your communication of them can be done in many different ways. You might convey them verbally, in writing, through a disapproving look, or by leaving. What’s important is that you stay true to your […]
Afraid to Love Again?
Are you afraid to love again? If you’ve been deeply hurt it’s understandable. But it’s always possible with the high reward endeavor of loving someone. There are ways to avoid and limit the pain if things don’t work out, however. Loving requires courage, so the rewards are plentiful. Not loving requires nothing, so the rewards […]
Best Books for Singles
These are the best books for singles I’ve ever found that align with the philosophy and goals of this site. You’ll find classics, famous authors, and best sellers. Because the list has grow so large and I don’t want you to miss anything, I am now referring you to all the books I recommend here. […]
Are You Taking 100% Responsibility?
Are you taking 100% responsibility for your relationships, fitness (physical & mental), career, and finances? Or are you blaming other people or circumstances for your failures? Are your relationships, especially romantic ones, continually filled with strife and heartache? Are you overweight, underweight, or out of shape? Are you emotionally immature and unstable? Is your career […]