Your best assets for being loved are your uniquenesses! Unless you have an identical twin, you have no competitors. Any imitators can only fake a cheap representation of you at best.
Think about what attracts you to a particular person. Isn’t it their unique look and the way they move and behave that draws you to them over anyone else? Isn’t it their mysterious uniqueness that is enticing, intoxicating, and sexy?
No one looks, acts, moves, thinks, listens, speaks, or creates like you do. There is only one copy of you. One original. One design.
It does not matter what you look like. Your attractiveness is shown by how you appreciate and love yourself – no matter what. This means that if you are not the best looking woman or man, according to Hollywood standards, it does not matter. Your attractiveness is expressed in your uniqueness if you have self-love and self-confidence. The foundation of self-love and self-confidence is self-acceptance and self-appreciation.
Not everyone is going to like your unique assets of course. Only those individuals who have refined “tastes” and “needs” for your particular assets will be drawn to you. These people can be lovers or just friends of any sex.
If you dramatically change key aspects of your body (weight loss) or behavior (personal development), you will attract people who align with these changes. But your unique underlining essence will continue to be the main attraction. 🙂
Here is a list of your unique assets that no one on earth can claim.
When you are being your true wonderful self, no one can compete with you. Your advantage is in the uniqueness and mystery you express through your personality.
A person with self-love and self-confidence automatically has a personality that is attractive regardless of their physical appearance or ways of expressing themselves. In other words, it does not matter if a person is extroverted, introverted, shy, or reserved. If they have learned to appreciate their uniqueness and have gained self-love and self-confidence, they will radiate attractive positive energy.
The uniqueness of your hair, skin, face, eyes, mouth, expressions, body, hands, chest, back, legs, arms, and movements are what makes certain people attracted to you. There is no person who is a fair comparison to you.
The opinion and attitude you have toward yourself, however, is shown in your appearance in multiple ways. It is shown in your expression, how you hold yourself, and in how you stand, walk, and move your arms. Develop self-acceptance and self-love for your body, and your appearance will improve tremendously.
Your history is the story behind the mystery that is you! It is your treasure chest, your journal, and your code book. It’s one of the strongest and longest lasting attraction features you have. It would take decades for anyone to understand the influences that have shaped the unique person you are.
This information reveals important clues about you that others can use to give you pleasure, guidance, and inspiration as well as pain, devious advice, and discouragement. So share it carefully and sparingly. There’s another advantage to being elusive about your history. It enhances your mystery, which is an aphrodisiac. 😀
Your future is the unique set of dreams you have for your life. It is the blueprint and image of your dreams that you constructed in your mind.
The unique characteristics of your dreams, and how you go about making them a reality, are what make you attractive to particular individuals. They may want to join you in your journey or travel alongside while they pursue similar dreams.
Your best assets for love are the things that differentiate you from everyone else. They are your uniquenesses. Embrace them, appreciate them, and love them. Consider your uniquenesses the perks of being you!