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What I Learned From Dating 300 Women

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Here is what I learned from dating 300 women. This number is a conservative lifetime estimate based on dating a person one or more times. Navigation – STDs: 0%, Kids: 0%, Gratitude: 100%.

Dated 300 Women?

You may be thinking: “He dated 300 women?” “Sounds like BS.” “Maybe if he was in a rock band.”

It’s absolutely true. After reviewing my dating history, I was surprised by the total. But not by much. In case you were wondering, I was never in a rock band. I may have looked the part a little during my heyday though. 😎

Here’s the good and the bad things I learned about women followed by some comments on men’s good and bad tendencies, and finally some dating tips. First the good.

Good 

Some women…

  • Are more likely to say “Yes” or respond with a kind “No” when asked for a date.
  • Who are very pretty often are the nicest and don’t get asked for dates much.
    • Men: So ask!
  • Are content with any kind of date even if it’s low cost or no cost.
  • Do not expect men to spend a lot of money on dates or gifts.
  • Smell wonderful and intoxicating with carefully chosen perfumes.
  • Dress attractively and classy.
  • Love to dance.
  • Are as shy, insecure, and awkward as men are at times.
  • Are more willing to have sex than I thought when I started dating.
  • Love having sex as much as I do.
  • Are outstanding listeners.
  • Inspire men to reach their full potential.
  • Are loyal supporters of their partner.
  • Are reasonable and logical in their thinking.
  • Hold themselves accountable for their actions.
  • Speak intelligently, kindly, and directly without fluff.

Bad

Some women…

  • Say something hurtful when they turn men down for a date.
    • Men: If they do, you wouldn’t want to date them anyway.
  • Want and expect expensive dates and gifts.
  • Use men to buy them things e.g. clothes and jewelry.
  • Dress extremely sexy and provocatively.
  • Nurture and encourage men to get what “they” want.
  • Use sexual suggestion to manipulate and control.
  • Use crying and babydoll talk to manipulate.
  • Are bitches simply because they are selfish.
  • Are nasty and self-serving under a veil of sweetness.
  • Travel in unholy pares to cutup boyfriends and other females.
  • Say and do incredibly hurtful things that far exceed the wrongdoing.
  • Do not use reason or logic in their thinking.
    • But this is changing along with advances in education and in the workplace.
  • Have no sense of accountability.
    • But this is changing along with advances in education and in the workplace.
  • Make clothes, jewelry, and cheesy television shows their top priorities.
  • Are secretive about their spending and credit card balances.
  • Speak in ways that are entirely self-serving and manipulative.

Men, of course, have their own set of good and bad tendencies. You’ll find many of them described in articles on this site. The key is to steer toward the good and away from the bad tendencies of your sex. How? Take a stand on your principles. Don’t have any? Or not sure what they are? Make a list and commit to following them. Doing this will bring you more self-confidence and self-love.

Tips

Do not…

  • Rush first kiss.
  • Rush first sex.
  • Rush love.
  • Tell life story.
  • Over compliment.
  • Be overly nice.
  • Spend a lot.
  • Put on an act.

Do…

Have fun!

Brad Paul

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