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Invest Your Time If She Does These Things

The Couple's Review - Non-confrontational Communication
Book by Brad Paul, Solotopia

Invest your time if the woman you’re dating does these things.

  • Refuses to have sex with you during early dating, but shows great interest in you and your relationship.
  • Agrees to go out with you when you ask her or suggests an alternative if can’t make it on a certain date.
  • Apologizes emphatically if she has to change your plans for a date.
  • Doesn’t cancel dates unless it’s a serious emergency.
  • Does not call you more than what is appropriate.
  • Returns your calls, text messages, emails, and other communications promptly.
  • Is excited about seeing you, but not desperate.
  • Is always well-groomed and well-dressed when you pick her up for dates.
  • Talks little about herself unless you ask.
  • Asks you a lot of questions about your life.
  • Shows great interest in what you’re talking about.
  • Demonstrates an optimistic attitude.
  • Demonstrates honesty and forthrightness.
  • Constantly encourages and praises you.
  • Makes you feel good about yourself.
  • Makes you want to be a better man.
  • Keeps her attention on you during your dates.
  • Does not check out other men during your dates.
  • Does not try to change aspects of your appearance or personality.
  • Does not talk negatively about her friends and other people in general.
  • Does not share gossip.
  • Talks favorably about your relationship.
  • Is always willing to have mature and constructive conversations about your relationship or any other topic.
  • Is always able to have a mature and constructive conversation about your relationship or any other topic without getting confrontational or yelling.
  • Does not ever talk to you about sensitive issues with another person present, especially a girlfriend or a family member.
  • Shows an aptitude for good judgment.
  • Shows an aptitude for smart spending and money management.
  • Shows an interest in fitness, exercise, and healthy eating.
  • Invites you to events with her friends and family when it would be appropriate to do so.
  • Puts no pressure on you about getting married.
  • Is willing to openly discuss sexually transmitted disease history and testing.
  • Is willing to openly talk about taking measures to prevent pregnancy.
  • Is willing to openly talk about what she’s doing to prevent pregnancy.
  • Demonstrates no tendencies for physical or emotional abuse toward you or anyone else.

If all or most of these things apply to the woman you’re seeing, I’d definitely recommend a superior and sizable time investment in her.  Because like that old classic Tom Jones song, “She’s got style, she’s got grace, …she’s a lady!”

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