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Don’t Waste Your Time If He Does These Things

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Don’t waste your time if the man you’re dating is doing these things.

  • Insists on having sex immediately while showing no sincere interest in you or a relationship.
  • Asks you to go out for dates at the last minute.
  • Asks you to go out on dates without any specific plans.
  • Doesn’t call you within a week or so after dates 1-3.
  • Doesn’t return your calls, text messages, emails, or other communications.
  • Makes excuses for not seeing you.
  • Cancels your dates at the last minute.
  • Puts you on hold (maybe status) on whether you’re going out on a date until the last minute.
  • Is poorly groomed and poorly dressed when he picks you up for dates.
  • Is only interested in talking about himself during your dates.
  • Shows little interest in what you talk about during your dates.
  • Doesn’t keep his attention on you during your dates.
  • Checks out other women during your dates.
  • Spends more time talking with other women during your dates than you.
  • Asks you to help him make another woman jealous.
  • Constantly tries to get you to change aspects of your appearance or personality.
  • Demonstrates a pessimistic attitude.
  • Demonstrates a dishonest and secretive aptitude.
  • Talks negatively about his friends and other people in general.
  • Constantly criticizes you.
  • Constantly complains about your relationship.
  • Refuses to have mature and constructive conversations about your relationship or any other topic.
  • Is unable to have a mature and constructive conversation about your relationship or any other topic without getting confrontational or yelling.
  • Confronts you about sensitive issues with another person present, especially a (male or female) friend or a family member.
  • Shows a propensity for poor judgment.
  • Shows a propensity for reckless spending and money management.
  • Shows no interest in fitness, exercise, or healthy eating.
  • Doesn’t invite you to events with his friends and family when it would be appropriate to do so.
  • Refuses to discuss sexually transmitted disease history and testing.
  • Refuses to talk about measures to prevent pregnancy.
  • Constantly demands to know where you’ve been and what you did.
  • Calls, texts, or emails you a ridiculous number of times every day.
  • Abuses you emotionally by saying incredibly hurtful things to you.
  • Abuses you physically by slapping or hitting you when he gets angry.

Don’t waste your time if a man is treating you like this at any point in your relationship.  There are billions of people in the world.  And there must be at least a thousand who are a perfect match for you.  So why waste another second of your life in a bad relationship?  Invest your time instead in finding a man who’s right for you.

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