I’m ready for a new even more perfect woman in my life. I’ve been without a girlfriend for some time by choice. And I’ve lived happily single (article). But recent challenging events inspired many positive changes in me. One of them is the realization that I now want to meet a highly compatible woman. So I decided to publish this article and let intention work.
Circumstance or distance may prevent a quick meeting, but that can be good. Normally we are in a rush to meet, date, and have sex. I’ve done that many times. But I’ve learned that by holding back on those things for a while, genuine relationship-building can happen. In addition, a true, lasting friendship can develop. Often sex and alcohol stunt or block the creation of a real friendship.
Developing a true friendship prior to intimacy leads to the best sex possible, in my experience. This is why coworkers produce strong bonds. The environment and the dangers of damaging their career prevent them from advancing too quickly. If they are doing work in areas they are passionate about, the fireworks can really be spectacular.
My criteria for a perfect woman nearly match what I describe in my book, Finding the One Who’s Right. But with more experience, knowledge, and age, I’ve refined, updated, and added to it.
Must Haves
- Smart
- Petite
- 4’10” to 5’4
- Fit
- Healthy
- Vegan
- Attractive
- Independent
- Productive
- Secure
- Authentic
- Truthful
- Easy going
- Cooperative
- Open-minded
- High integrity
- Solid character
- Good communicator
- Supportive
- Thrifty
- Dog lover
- Computer literate
- Internet savvy
- Organized
Want To Haves
- Luxury tiny house lover
- WordPress enthusiast
- Creative
- Music: soft rock, folk-rock, classic rock, new age
- Politics: non-partisan, independent
- College
- Green living
- Renewable energy
- Landscaper
- Food gardener
- House planter
- RV traveler
- Tennis player
- No kids
Must Not Haves
- Foolish
- Careless
- Selfish
- Obese
- Model
- No exercise
- Girl jock
- Unhealthy
- Animal eater
- Compulsive shopper/spender
- In debt
- Unreasonable
- Defensive
- Bitchy
- Aggressive
- Pushy
- Loud
- Shouter
- Confrontational
- Illogical
- Trump supporter
- Ultra-conservative
- Smoker (past okay)
- Heavy drinker
- Poor listener
- Constant talker
- Unproductive
- Sneaky
- Surpriser
- Big city lover
- Cat lover
- Rap fanatic
I expect to add to these lists as things come to mind.