Conforming and nonconforming singles are easy to recognize. Their actions, choices, and attitudes are very different. Conforming singles favor the traditional ways of doing things. Nonconforming singles prefer a progressive approach.
Here’s a table comparing conforming singles to nonconforming singles.
| Conforming Singles | Nonconforming Singles |
| Followers | Leaders |
| Trend imitators. | Trendsetters. |
| Join singles clubs. | Create unique singles organizations. |
| Support singles causes that serve them. | Start, support those that serve singles community. |
| Dress to look sexy and cool. | Dress to fit their tastes and personality. |
| Choose careers, homes, and cars to impress. | Choose careers, homes, cars aligned with values. |
| Date to fit in. | Date when it suits them. |
| In a rush to find a partner. | In no hurry to find a partner. |
| Fearful between relationships. | Productive between relationships. |
| Feel pressure to get married. | Feel no pressure to get married. |
| Pick partners who pick them or picked for them. | Pick partners who meet their specific criteria. |
| Love to get love. | Love to give love. |
| Hate being alone. | Enjoy being alone. |
| Must go out with friends. | Okay going out alone. |
| Must have a date for social events. | Unconcerned about having a date for social events. |
| Cannot go on vacation without a partner. | Can enjoy a vacation alone or with a friend. |
| Eat a meat-based and processed foods diet. | Eat a plant-based and unprocessed foods diet. |
| Exercise periodically at popular health clubs. | Exercise regularly at home using a gym they built. |
| Rely on pharmaceutical drugs to feel good. | Rely on superfoods and exercise to feel good. |
| Addicted to mind-numbing television programs. | Addicted to mind enriching documentaries & books. |
| Think inside the box. | Think outside the box. |
| Set conservative goals. | Set big, courageous goals. |
| Focus on safety and repetitiveness. | Focus on adventure and change. |
As you can see, there are many advantages to being a nonconforming single and few if any to being a conforming single. If you discovered that you are a conforming single who wants to be a nonconforming single, you can definitely do that. The criteria for making this change are courage, a pioneering spirit, and open-mindedness.
Dominate your life instead of allowing other people and things to control it!