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Conforming Versus Nonconforming Singles

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Conforming and nonconforming singles are easy to recognize. Their actions, choices, and attitudes are very different. Conforming singles favor the traditional ways of doing things. Nonconforming singles prefer a progressive approach.

Here’s a table comparing conforming singles to nonconforming singles.

Conforming SinglesNonconforming Singles
Followers.Leaders.
Trend imitators. Trendsetters.
Join singles common clubs. Create unique singles organizations.
Support singles causes that serve them.Start or support those that serve the singles community.
Dress to look sexy and cool.Dress to fit their tastes and personality.
Choose careers, homes, and cars to impress.Choose careers, homes, and cars aligned with their principles.
Date to fit in. Date when it suits them.
In a rush to find a partner.In no hurry to find a partner.
Fearful between relationships.Productive between relationships.
Feel pressure to get married. Feel no pressure to get married.
Pick partners who pick them or are picked for them.Pick partners who meet their specific criteria.
Love to get love. Love to give love.
Hate being alone.Enjoy being alone.
Must go out with friends.Okay with going out alone.
Must have a date for social events.Unconcerned about having a date for social events.
Cannot go on vacation without a romantic partner.Can enjoy a vacation alone or with a friend.
Eat an animal-based and processed foods diet.Eat a plant-based and unprocessed foods diet.
Exercise periodically at popular health clubs.Exercise regularly at home using a gym they built.
Rely on pharmaceutical drugs to feel good.Rely on superfoods and exercise to feel good.
Addicted to mind-numbing television programs. Addicted to mind-enriching documentaries and books.
Think inside the box.Think outside the box.
Set conservative goals.Set big, courageous goals.
Focus on safety and repetitiveness. Focus on adventure and change.

As you can see, there are many advantages to being a nonconforming single and few if any to being a conforming single. If you discovered that you are a conforming single who wants to be a nonconforming single, you can definitely do that. The criteria for making this change are courage, a pioneering spirit, and open-mindedness.

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