Conforming and nonconforming singles are easy to recognize. Their actions, choices, and attitudes are very different. Conforming singles favor the traditional ways of doing things. Nonconforming singles prefer a progressive approach.
Here’s a table comparing conforming singles to nonconforming singles.
|Conforming Singles||Nonconforming Singles|
|Join singles common clubs.||Create unique singles organizations.|
|Support singles causes that serve them.||Start or support those that serve the singles community.|
|Dress to look sexy and cool.||Dress to fit their tastes and personality.|
|Choose careers, homes, and cars to impress.||Choose careers, homes, and cars aligned with their principles.|
|Date to fit in.||Date when it suits them.|
|In a rush to find a partner.||In no hurry to find a partner.|
|Fearful between relationships.||Productive between relationships.|
|Feel pressure to get married.||Feel no pressure to get married.|
|Pick partners who pick them or are picked for them.||Pick partners who meet their specific criteria.|
|Love to get love.||Love to give love.|
|Hate being alone.||Enjoy being alone.|
|Must go out with friends.||Okay with going out alone.|
|Must have a date for social events.||Unconcerned about having a date for social events.|
|Cannot go on vacation without a romantic partner.||Can enjoy a vacation alone or with a friend.|
|Eat an animal-based and processed foods diet.||Eat a plant-based and unprocessed foods diet.|
|Exercise periodically at popular health clubs.||Exercise regularly at home using a gym they built.|
|Rely on pharmaceutical drugs to feel good.||Rely on superfoods and exercise to feel good.|
|Addicted to mind-numbing television programs.||Addicted to mind-enriching documentaries and books.|
|Think inside the box.||Think outside the box.|
|Set conservative goals.||Set big, courageous goals.|
|Focus on safety and repetitiveness.||Focus on adventure and change.|
As you can see, there are many advantages to being a nonconforming single and few if any to being a conforming single. If you discovered that you are a conforming single who wants to be a nonconforming single, you can definitely do that. The criteria for making this change are courage, a pioneering spirit, and open-mindedness.
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