You can learn how to master the unique skills of being single and reap the rewards of having a fulfilling lifestyle, great dating experiences, and magnificent love relationships. Or, you can just keep doing as you all ways have, get the same results, and have the same miserable outlook about being single.

At Solotopia you will find an abundance of FREE resources to help you achieve mastery in many areas of your single life whether you choose to remain unattached, just date, or find a perfect partner. You will also find a supportive, helpful, and inspiring community here.

This site is not a dating service. The focus here is on you. The goal is to provide you with the solutions that will help you become the person you know you can be and master the skills required for superior single living. This means taking 100% responsibility and courageously gaining mastery of your emotions, fitness, finances, dating/relationship skills, and partner selection abilities.

The reward for achieving mastery in these areas is a satisfying single life and the ability to create a superb love relationship at the time of your choosing.

Where to Begin?

To see what this site has to offer, look at the navigation bar on the left and the links at the bottom of this page for topics and articles of interest to you. To see a categorized list of the articles, click: Articles by Category

Solotopia’s mission is to help singles reach their potential as individuals and in their ability to enjoy their solo lifestyle or create a glorious love relationship.

Solotopia’s social mission is to lead a change in awareness that establishes singles in a more positive, prominent, and permanent place in the world community.

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Sincerely,

Brad Paul
Founder

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Are you a Solotopian?

-Solotopians strive to be their best and live a rich, rewarding life as a single person.

-Solotopians resist settling for anything less than a magnificent love relationship.

-Solotopians reject the stigmas, limitations, and pressures society places on singles.

Who is Brad Paul?

Brad began learning about the needs of singles as he built and led a unique, highly successful non-profit singles organization. He refined his knowledge about singles as he researched and wrote books on how to find a partner who’s right for you and non-confrontational couple’s communication. Before changing careers, he was head of a marketing group responsible for $400 million dollars in annual product sales. To learn more click> About BP & Solotopia

FREE Articles & Useful Pages

FREE Stuff at Solotopia.com List of FREE stuff on the Solotopia website.

Articles by Category Provides a listing of all articles by category. Brad Paul, the founder of Solotopia, is the author of every article on this site.

Solotopia Clubhouses A Solotopia Clubhouse may be coming to an area near you!

Solotopia Store – Merchandise Exclusively for Singles Merchandise exclusively for singles designed by Brad Paul, Solotopia’s founder, including t-shirts, tops, hats, bags, mugs, posters, and more.

Books Recommended by Brad Paul, Solotopia founder List of books recommended by Brad Paul, Solotopia founder. Includes books on being single, dating, relationships, communication, self improvement, fitness & more.

Products & Services Recommended by Brad Paul, Solotopia founder List of products & services recommended by Brad Paul, Solotopia founder. Includes a detailed description, benefits, and applications.

Singlehood! Happily Single or Coupled & Freedom to Choose! Article describes singlehood, how to be happily single, its value for successful dating & relationships, and how it gives you the freedom to choose either.

Being Single Can Be an Abyss or Bliss - It All Depends on Your Mindset Article describes how to be single and happy. Focuses on how your mindset is the key and NOT whether you are dating or have a partner.

Singles Club! How to Build a Successful Singles Organization Article describes how to design, build, & operate a singles club. Written by the founder of a unique, highly successful singles organization in OC, California.

Being Alone and Content To Be Strong Together Article discusses how to master the art of being alone and how learning this skill can greatly enhance your relationships.

What is Love? Defined & Described by What it Is and is NOT Article describes what love is and what love is not, and the prerequisite to having it. What is love to you?

Why Self Evaluation & Preparation are Vital to a Successful Love Relationship Article discusses self evaluation in the (4) major areas that have the greatest influence on the success or failure of a love relationship & how to get ready.

How to Create Relentless Motivation to Find Your Perfect Partner Article on how to create relentless motivation to find the right partner for YOU! No compromises, no detours, no excuses until you reach your goal.

Overcoming Shyness – The Pathway & Methods for Success! Article about overcoming shyness, the pathway for breaking through to a new life, and proven techniques to accelerated your progress.

Fitness Singles - The Smart Lifestyle Choice Article on how fitness singles excel. Covers exercise, nutrition, vitamin supplements, & motivation. Also, how to build a simple, inexpensive home gym.

How to Find Love with a Person Who’s Right for You! Article on how to find love with a partner who’s right for YOU! Finding someone who synchronizes with you naturally is within your reach. Why settle for less?

Best Places & Situations to Find the Love of Your Life! Article describes the best places & situations to find the love of your life. Discusses how to recognize an outstanding online dating service & match.

Online Dating Services – How to Pick the Right One for You! Describes how to pick the right online dating services for you. Includes the advantages of Internet dating services and a plan for finding the best ones.

Dating Rules for Success! 10 Reliable Rules Article presents dating rules for success including motivation, evaluation, targeting, places, techniques, wardrobe, rejection, & intimacy.

Ultimate Dating Tips, Advice, & Strategies for Dating Mastery! Article gives you an education & a step-by-step strategy to dramatically improve your dating success & enjoyment. Includes lots of dating tips, advice, & ideas.

Approaching Women the Easy Way! Article on approaching women the easy way: With sincerity, a bit of creativity, and courage. Covers 9 key areas for more success and fun.

Dating Tips for Men - 21 Insider Tips for Success! Article presents the 21 most effective & most important dating tips for men. The dating veteran to the reactivated to the newbie can benefit from this list.

What Women Want in a Man – And the Myths about Her Secret Desires Article features a list of what women want in a man and the myths about her secret desires. The list contains the 21 most important things that women want.

Dating Tips for Women - 21 Insider Tips for Success! Article presents the 21 most effective & most important dating tips for women. The dating veteran to the reactivated to the newbie can benefit from this list.

What Men Want in a Woman – And the Myths about His Secret Desires Article features a list of what men want in a woman and the myths about his secret desires. The list contains the 21 most important things that men want.

Dating Questions for Successful Relationships - 80 Tactical Questions Article presents strategies & 80 tactical dating questions to gain insights, determine compatibility, enhance dating experiences, & refine your relationship.

Romantic Getaways for Every Taste, Style, & Situation Article presents information and stories about romantic getaways from the traditional to the unusual and from retreats to adventures!

How to Handle Rejection - Discard the Myths & Fears & Go for It! Article on dating rejection. Rejection is part of everyone’s dating experience, but it is easy to be unaffected once you learn how to respond to it.

Toxic Love Relationships - How to Recognize and Escape Them Article describes the characteristics of a toxic love relationship, how to know if you’re in one, and how to escape. A plan for breaking FREE is included.

Breaking Up! How to Ride the Pain to Gain Article on how to use the pain of breaking up to make major positive changes and have a better relationship and life in the future.

Romantic Ideas - 14 Ways to Ignite, Maintain, or Increase the Fire! Article presents romantic ideas, tips, and advice for igniting, maintaining, or increasing the fire of romance and passion in your relationship.

Couples Communication Without Confrontation! Article on a unique, non-confrontational couples communication method to express concerns, discuss problems, & reveal desires. For all couples, dating or married.

Rules of Friendship Article describes the rules of friendship and its value, especially for singles, in comparison to other key relationships in a person’s life.

Intuition - How to Access, Recognize, & Trust It Article on understanding, accessing, recognizing, and trusting your intuition. Focus is primarily from the perspective of the singles lifestyle.

Personal Advice - What Are Your Best Sources? Article on personal advice discusses how to choose your best sources, evaluate recommendations, and identify solutions that fit your needs.

Quotes for Singles from the Masters! Quotes for singles, 10 inspiring categories: abundant life, thought mastery, self mastery, courage, transition, perseverance, motivation, friendship, relationship, & love.

Useful Links Useful links to websites of value.

Link to Solotopia.com Information and code for linking to Solotopia.com

Books by Brad Paul List of books by Brad Paul. Each listing has a picture of the cover, a brief description, and a link to more information.

Finding the One Who's Right - by Brad Paul About Brad Paul's book entitled, "Finding the One Who's Right." Describes how to identify and find the perfect partner for YOU!

Mate Imaging System – by Brad Paul About Brad Paul's book entitled, "Mate Imaging System." Describes how to identify the perfect partner for YOU!

The Couple’s Review – by Brad Paul About Brad Paul’s book entitled, “The Couple’s Review.” Guides a couple in a unique, non-confrontational communication process. Useful whether dating, going steady, engaged, or married.

About Brad Paul & Solotopia Information about Brad Paul & Solotopia. Includes a description, background, biography, mission statements, values listing, & name origin.

Contact Brad Paul Contact Brad Paul, Founder