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Recommended Products & Services


These products and services were selected based on these criteria.

  • Fits and enhances the singles lifestyle experience.
  • Improves dating or relationship activities or skills.
  • Provides tools for self improvement and growth.
  • Offers a realistic way to create an income generating website.
  • Satisfies value judgment through experience or research.

Below is a menu of recommended products and services. Just click on the name to jump down to it.

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  1. Online Matchmaking/Dating Service – Chemistry
  2. Discount Men’s & Women’s Fragrances – Fragrance X
  3. All-in-One Website Hosting & Marketing – Site Build It!
  4. Personal Journaling Software – The Journal
  5. Background Check – US Search

 




1. Chemistry

(Online Matchmaking/Dating Service)

Matched Based on Compatibility & Chemistry


The folks at Chemistry believe that meaningful relationships are built on two equally important foundations: compatibility and chemistry. Other sites concentrate on compatibility, while Chemistry's system is designed to help you find both of these elements.

3 Months for the Price of 1

I like the fact that an anthropologist, Dr. Helen Fisher, designed the Chemistry methods, rather than a just a psychologist. I may be a little bias though since I have a degree in anthropology.

I am also very impressed by their inclusion of chemistry along with compatibility in their matching criteria. I feel that this gives their matching technology an advantage over other services.

I would strong recommend that you look into Chemistry if you are seeking a meaningful, long-term relationship.

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2. Fragrance X

(Discount Men’s & Women’s Fragrances)

Dating & Romance Must Have!


Fragrance X is the best place for perfumes and colognes that I have found. Great prices, outstanding selection, FREE shipping, customer reviews, and an easy to navigate website. Need I say more?

Check out Fragrance X

 

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3. Site Build It

(All-in-One Website Hosting & Marketing)

The Perfect Online Business Partner


After I left my corporate job, I really did a lot of soul searching on what I wanted to do next. Because I loved the idea of having freedom in all areas of my life, I naturally gravitated toward creating my own online business.

Site Build It!

An Internet business would give me the freedom to live anywhere, work anywhere, and travel anywhere I wanted!  It would also fulfill my desire to do work that utilized my talents, aligned with my values, and made a positive contribution to the world.

Being single, I knew that I had one of the most important components for building a successful online business – lots of unencumbered free time.  It seemed like a perfect match!

I started learning about the Internet and website design through a few university courses I took in 1997.  I began building my first online businesses over several years beginning in 2000.  Each of them produced very little traffic or income.

In early 2008, I was shocked to learn that 99% of new Internet businesses fail!  I had to admit to myself that I was a part of this group… until I discovered Site Build It!

The difference with Site Sell, and the Site Build It product, from all other hosting companies is its enormous educational features, its cutting-edge behind the scenes technology, and its outstanding support mechanisms.

I transferred Solotopia.com to Site Build It (SBI) in March of 2008.  I saw more traffic to this site during the first eight (8) months with SBI than I did during the prior seven (7) years put together!  And all of the traffic was produced for free!  SBI shows you how to generate traffic without spending a dollar on advertising! SBI has proven to be the perfect online business partner for me. 

I started building a new SBI website in mid 2009 called Guru Habits.com.  Although I moved Solotopia to another hosting company (Blue Host) so I could concentrate my resources on Guru Habits.com, the training and site building technology that I received from SBI has enable me to create a rock solid foundation for Solotopia.  I’ve had an account at Blue Host since 2004 and currently have several websites hosted by them.  Although Blue Host is outstanding, it is a completely different service than SBI.  If I could, I’d have all my websites at SBI.  There is one thing that I know for sure.  I will definitely have more SBI websites in the future.

One of the best things about Site Build It is that fits everyone from the beginner to the seasoned veteran.  They also have a great affiliate program.  The thing I like most about SBI is its philosophy of keeping things real and honest.

To read the rest of the story, click: How I Built This Site.  Pick up the story in the second section entitled, “How is Site Build It Different?

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4. The Journal

(Personal Journaling Software)

Discover the Amazing Benefits of Journaling


Journaling is the perfect companion for singles, or anyone else, to record their thoughts, work out problems, do self analysis, and to organize their life.

Whatever your journaling or writing needs, The Journal provides unrivaled convenience, flexibility, and security. It lets you make entries with text, images, and just about anything else. Plus, you can rest assured that your secrets remain secret with The Journal's password protection and encryption.

System Requirements: Windows Vista, XP, 2000, ME, NT, 98, or 95; 100 mhz Pentium processor or better; 32 MB RAM; 10 MB hard drive space. There is no native Mac version, but the PC version can be run on a Mac with a Windows emulator such as Virtual PC or Parallels.


With The Journal you can…

Create a digital record of your life!

Organize notes about your dates, your relationships, your work, a hobby, or anything else.

Write a short love story, an article, or even a book.

Remember your dates, singles events, appointments, tasks, and special days!

Record your thoughts, feelings, solutions, ideas, goals, and dreams.

Post a description of your perfect partner so that you can refer to it often and establish a clear mental image for yourself.

(For help in creating a description, read the article on this site entitled, ”How to Find Love with a Person Who’s Right for You!” To create a more precise description, read Brad Paul’s book entitled, ”Finding the One Who’s Right.”)


Journaling is a powerful tool for self analysis, self discovery, and self improvement. This happens as you write and review your private thoughts, feelings, and solutions and when you record and evaluate your progress on personal development goals.


Download The Journal Now!

The Journal costs $39.95. This is an outstanding value in my opinion.

To purchase an instantly downloadable copy of this software, click: Buy


Try The Journal FREE for 45 Days

If you would prefer to try The Journal before buying it, you can also download a fully functional 45-day free trial version (4.8 MB file).

To download a 45-day FREE trial of this software, click: Try

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5. US Search

(Background Check)

Love is Blind, But You Don't Have to Be


Few things in life are more heartbreaking than discovering that the person you have fallen in love with has a horrendous background that s/he has been hiding from you. It gets down right maddening if you’ve been persuaded to loan them money or be unwittingly drawn into illegal or immoral activites.

Dating is a unique social environment. This is especially true of online dating. A person’s true character can easily be concealed. One or both parties can also naively overlook some of the red flags because of the intoxicating effects of romantic passion.

The only way to protect yourself, particularly when it comes to online dating, is to check out your partner through a reliable source. In this case, I am talking about running a background check.

If you are uncomfortable with the idea of doing a background check, consider this. If they are truly everything they say they are, the background check will merely confirm their story. In most cases, you don’t know anything about them. So what’s the big deal in protecting yourself.

Here’s another way to look at it. Don’t you usually do quite a bit of your own investigation into their background by asking friends and associates various questions? Is there really much difference between “asking around” and doing a background check? During the early stages of dating, there are almost never any agreements or commitments that have been made, or even implied. And there’s not much to be concerned about anyway, since this type of background check doesn’t reveal a lot of details.

Your choice of whether to do a background check should become clearer if you have discovered some solid reasons to question their “story.” This is especially true if you’re faced with some important life-changing decisions that involve them.

I’ve heard many heartbreaking stories from men and women who have been taken advantage of monetarily. Not only did they get a lot of money stolen from them, but they also lost a large portion of their self-esteem.

Here are some of the questions that a background check with answer.

* Do they have a criminal record?

* What type of assets or debts do they have?

* Do they have any pending lawsuits?

* Are they married or divorced?

* Do they have any children?


Get a Background Check Report Now

The special US Search DateMate report costs $39.95

To get a report now or learn more, click: Background Check


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FREE Articles

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Singlehood! Happily Single or Coupled & Freedom to Choose!

Being Single Can Be an Abyss or Bliss - It All Depends on Your Mindset

Singles Club! How to Build a Successful Singles Organization

Being Alone and Content To Be Strong Together

What is Love? Defined & Described by What it Is and is NOT

Why Self Evaluation & Preparation is Vital to a Successful Love Relationship - And How You Can Get Ready

How to Create Relentless Motivation to Find the Right Partner for You!

Overcoming Shyness – The Pathway & Methods for Success!

Fitness Singles - The Smart Lifestyle Choice

How to Find Love with a Person Who’s Right for You!

Best Places & Situations to Find the Love of Your Life!

Online Dating Services – How to Pick the Right One for You!

Dating Rules for Success! 10 Reliable Rules

Ultimate Dating Tips, Advice, & Strategies for Dating Mastery!

Approaching Women the Easy Way! With Sincerity, Creativity, & Courage

Dating Tips for Men - 21 Insider Tips for Success!

What Women Want in a Man – And the Myths About Her Secret Desires

Dating Tips for Women - 21 Insider Tips for Success!

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What Men Want in a Woman – And the Myths About His Secret Desires

Dating Questions for Successful Relationships - 80 Tactical Questions

Romantic Getaways for Every Taste, Style, & Situation

How to Handle Rejection - Discard the Myths & Fears & Go for It!

Toxic Love Relationships - How to Recognize & Escape Them

Breaking Up! How to Ride the Pain to Gain

Romantic Ideas - 14 Ways to Ignite, Maintain, or Increase the Fire!

Couples Communication without Confrontation!

Rules of Friendship

Intuition - How to Access, Recognize, & Trust It

Personal Advice - What Are Your Best Sources?

Quotes for Singles from the Masters!

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