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Refuses to have sex with you during early dating, but shows great
interest in you and your relationship.
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Agrees to go out with you when you ask her, or suggests an alternative if
can’t make it on a certain date.
Apologizes emphatically if she has to change your plans for a date.
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Doesn’t cancel dates unless it’s a serious emergency.
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Does not call you more than what is appropriate.
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Returns your calls, text messages, emails, and other communications
promptly.
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Is excited about seeing you, but not desperate.
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Is always well groomed and well dressed when you pick her up for dates.
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Talks little about herself unless you ask.
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Asks you a lot of questions about your life.
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Shows great interest in what you’re talking about.
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Demonstrates an optimistic attitude.
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Demonstrates honesty and forthrightness.
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Constantly encourages and praises you.
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Makes you feel good about yourself.
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Makes you want to be a better man.
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Keeps her attention on you during your dates.
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Does not check out other men during your dates.
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Does not try to change aspects of your appearance or personally.
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Does not talk negatively about her friends and other people in general.
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Does not share gossip.
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Talks favorably about your relationship.
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Is always willing to have mature and constructive conversations about
your relationship or any other topic.
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Is always able to have a mature and constructive conversations about your
relationship or any other topic
without getting confrontational or yelling.
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Does not ever talk to you about sensitive issues with another person
present, especially a girlfriend or a family member.
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Shows an aptitude for good judgment.
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Shows an aptitude for smart spending and money management.
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Shows an interest in
fitness,
exercise, and
healthy eating.
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Invites you to events with her friends and family when it would be
appropriate to do so.
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Puts no pressure on you about getting married.
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Is willing to openly discuss sexually transmitted disease history and
testing.
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Is willing to openly talk about taking measures to prevent pregnancy.
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Is wiling to openly talk about what she’s doing to prevent pregnancy.
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Demonstrates no tendencies for physical or emotional abuse toward you or
anyone else.>
If all or most these things apply to the woman you’re seeing, I’d definitely
recommend a superior and sizable time investment in her. Because like that
old Tom Jones song, “She’s got style, she’s got grace, …she’s a lady!”
