Don’t waste your time if the man you’re dating is doing these things.
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Insists on having sex immediately while showing no sincere
interest in you or a relationship.
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Asks you to go out for dates at the last minute.
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Asks you to go out on dates without any specific plans.
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Doesn’t call you within a week or so after dates 1-3.
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Doesn’t return your calls, text messages, emails, or other
communications.
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Makes excuses for not seeing you.
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Cancels your dates at the last minute.
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Puts you on hold (maybe status) on whether you’re going out on a date
until the last minute.
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Is poorly groomed and poorly dressed when he picks you up for dates.
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Is only interested in talking about himself during your dates.
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Shows little interest in what you talk about during your dates.
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Doesn’t keep his attention on you during your dates.
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Checks out other women during your dates.
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Spends more time talking with other women during your dates than you.
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Asks you to help him make another woman jealous.
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Constantly tries to get you to change aspects of your appearance or
personally.
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Demonstrates a pessimistic attitude.
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Demonstrates a dishonest and secretive aptitude.
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Talks negatively about his friends and other people in general.
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Constantly criticizes you.
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Constantly complaints about your relationship.
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Refuses to have mature and constructive conversations about your
relationship or any other topic.
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Is unable to have a mature and constructive conversations about your
relationship or any other topic
without getting confrontational or yelling.
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Confronts you about sensitive issues with another person present,
especially a (male or female) friend or a family member.
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Shows a propensity for poor judgment.
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Shows a propensity for reckless spending and money management.
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Shows no interest in
fitness, exercise, or
healthy eating.
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Doesn’t invite you to events with his friends and family when it would be
appropriate to do so.
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Refuses to discuss sexually transmitted disease history and testing.
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Refuses to talk about measures to prevent pregnancy.
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Constantly demands to know where you’ve been and what you did.
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Calls, texts, or emails you a ridiculous number of times every day.
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Abuses you emotionally by saying incredibly hurtful things to you.
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Abuses you physically by slapping or hitting you when he gets angry.
Don’t waste your time if a man is treating you like this at any point in your
relationship. There are billions of people in the world. And there
must be at least a thousand who are a perfect match for you. So why waste
another second of your life in a bad relationship. Invest your time
instead in
finding a man who’s right for you.
