About Brad Paul & Solotopia

About Brad Paul

Singles Lifestyle Experience

Brad began learning about the needs of singles as he built and led a unique, highly successful non-profit singles organization.  For more information read the article on this site entitled, Singles Club! How to Build a Successful Singles Organization

He refined his knowledge about singles as he researched and wrote books on how to find a partner who’s right for you and non-confrontational couple’s communication.

In preparation for his books, singles club, and websites, Brad conducted extensive formal research on mate selection criteria around the world and throughout history. This study also looked at what men and women want in a partner and the similarities and differences in their respective criteria.

The combined experience of all of the above, along with the knowledge he acquired from reading hundreds of personal development books led to the creation of the ideas presented in his books, articles, and websites. The result is concepts based on established analytical techniques, proven human performance principles, and just plain common sense.

He has been fortunate to have the opportunity to date over 200 women (lifetime conservative estimate) and have many magnificent romantic relationships. He has also had many excruciatingly painful breakups.

He doesn’t share this information to brag, but rather to offer it as credentials, if you will, of his experience on both sides of this issue. In fact, it was the painful breakups that inspired him to look for solutions and want to help others through his books and websites.

As for having the skills to date a lot of women, it certainly hasn’t always been that way for Brad. During his teens, he was so shy and fearful that he rarely spoke to anyone, and especially not to females. He shares his story about this in an article on this site entitled, ”Overcoming Shyness - The Pathway & Methods for Success!”

Biography

Like so many, Brad grew up in a broken home. His mother remarried but it was a bad match. When tensions reached the breaking point, he left home at the age of 15. Unlike his childhood hero, Tom Sawyer, the police quickly apprehended him. He was sent to jail, court, juvenile hall, and finally a boys’ home.

The boys’ home was an offshoot of the famous Boys Town in Nebraska. (The Oscar-winning movie ”Boys Town” starring Spencer Tracy, tells the story.) Being there was the best thing that could have happened to him. He achieved the most coveted position at the boys' home and graduated with a small scholarship.

After graduating with honors from college, he joined a well-known Fortune 500 company. Starting at the bottom, he rose rapidly through the ranks to head of a marketing group responsible for generating $400 million dollars in annual product sales to 900 retail outlets throughout the United States.

He gained much insight on relationship issues as he built and led a non-profit singles organization during his off time. Always wary of singles clubs, he set out to create one with a unique approach that would distinguish it from all others. The response was tremendous and the club grew swiftly.

Feeling the pull of a higher calling, Brad left the corporate world after many years of dedicated service to find work that was more meaningful. He devoted the next several years to developing an effective and simpler way to achieve the vital goals in a person's life such as finding an ideal partner, transforming a present relationship, and other key issues.

Today, Brad devotes his time to writing and development products that improve people’s lives and building websites that support these activities.

Mission

Solotopia’s mission is to help singles reach their potential as individuals and in their ability to have a fulfilling solo lifestyle, great dating experiences, or a lasting relationship.

Solotopia’s social mission is to lead a change in awareness that establishes singles in a more positive, productive, and prominent place in the world community.

Solotopia’s service mission is to help singles in crisis to transform their lives.

Name

The name Solotopia was derived from the words “solo” (*A performance or accomplishment by a single individual.) and “utopia” (*A condition, place, or situation of perfection.).  *Oxford American Desk Dictionary (2001)

The word “singles” is infected with many negative connotations. Therefore, the word “solo” was selected to represent the “singles” identification in the name. The word “utopia” was chosen because its definition describes the spirit and ambition of Solotopia.

Everyone is welcome at Solotopia. All never married, divorced, and widowed single adults of all ages, occupations, ethnicities, nationalities, and religions.

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